That shouldn't be a huge deal, nor should you be putting yourself in pain to try and please your partner. He likes this one, but it is painful for you, so you just make clear that it's a bummer, but this one thing he likes isn't workable for you: that it not only doesn't feel good, it hurts. Clearly, your partner has a preference about a position: you get to have preferences, too. It may also be putting pressure on your bladder, so if you're not emptying it before sex, you can try that - you'll want to do that before and after any kind of sex anyway, just to help avoid getting urinary tract infections.īut if you do all that and a given position still just doesn't feel good to you with a different partner, then it just doesn't feel good to you. If you're doing this before you're highly aroused, ask him to be sure to take more time with other sexual activities that really get you hot and bothered first, particularly those that aren't about intercourse or vaginal entry. If he's too rough, ask him to slow down or not to push in so deeply or so hard. If either of those things are the case, then make some changes. Now, it may be that your partner is simply being too rough or aggressive in that position it may be that you're trying to have intercourse that way before you are highly aroused enough for your cervix to have pulled back so it's out of the way. The weight, size and proportional differences of two people's whole bodies can also make some positions not so workable. Vaginas are a bit more adaptable and uniform - even though vulvas differ very widely - but every position is still not going to feel good to every woman, with every partner. With penises, for instance, you not only have differences in size, you have differences in shape or curvature. Not all of our bodies and genitals are made alike.
Any two different pieces don't always fit together, or fit together in the same way.
In a lot of ways, people are like puzzle pieces, emotionally, intellectually and physically.
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